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You've heard the saying literally everywhere.
And yet it seems super hard to get a girl to come over to watch Netflix and fu...
I mean to watch Netflix and chill.
Because hey.
We all know what it means to invite a girl to watch Netflix and chill.
It means you're going to have sex.
She knows it, you know it.
Her best friend she told she was going to watch a movie over at a guy's house knows it.
Now it's all about not screwing that up.
So let me show you properly how to invite a girl to Netflix and chill.
In this article, I will show you from beginning to end a recent "Netflix and Chill" encounter I had with a girl I met on Tinder.
And I will give you my best dating tips so that you too can get girls to come directly over to your place.
But I don't want to leave you alone not knowing what to do once she's sitting on your couch.
So I will also give you my world-class dating advice to make sure you close that home date properly.
Let's jump right in.
1 - Get a Quality Match on Dating Apps
Let's call her Susie.
I matched with Susie on Tinder, and it turns out we already matched a month ago.
She seems to really like me, and since we talked before there's no real need for further conversation.
Now here's the most important part of this article:
She must be really into you.
Because the more a girl is into you, the more she will want to burn the usual steps.
And get directly to sex.
Make Her Crazy For You
There are a few things that will get a girl to be crazy for you.
The first one is the easiest one, but you have no control over it:
It's when she's just too horny and she's totally DTF.
Focus on Receptive Women
It's very simple, among all the women you will match with on dating apps, some are hornier than others.
It depends on the girl's personality, it depends on what headspace she's in at the time.
But to know how to invite a girl to Netflix and Chill you must recognize those girls who are really into you.
Here are the biggest signs that a girl is DTF:
She moves the conversation toward a date
She gives you obvious signs of interest (compliments, ...)
She hints at activities that can be done at home
And the biggest sign: she doesn't object when you invite her over to your home.
Get Sex Faster with a Better Profile
When you meet a girl who's receptive like that, it's basically going to multiply any attraction she has for you by 10.
... but it will also multiply the attraction she has for your competition tenfold.
So make sure that your profile is attractive to begin with.
Because if your profile is a 6/10, sure she wants the D.
But if another guy rolls in with a profile that's a 9/10, you can't compete.
So make sure your profile is good enough.
The better your profile, the more she will be attracted.
Remember:
If she's very attracted it means she will want to have sex earlier.
And don't worry, literally anyone can join the top 1% on dating apps.
(No, you don't need to be ripped and no, you don't need to be rich.)
If you're not confident about the quality of your profile check out my Tinder photo guide here.
Get Sex Faster with Proper Text Game
Also, if you wanna know how to invite a girl to Netflix and Chill you must make sure that you're able to text girls properly.
That you don't make weird mistakes like going into conversational talk
That you don't hesitate to make moves
That you behave in a non-judgemental and lighthearted, fun way
So that in the end you ask her out properly, before another guy does.
Pro Tip: Getting a girl to come over for sex on the first date, I mean, to watch a movie, is actually super easy, but only once you've got your basics right (profile + text game). |
If you're not comfortable texting girls just yet, consider reading this article in which I break down how to ask a girl out over texts.
Down the line, asking how to invite a girl to Netflix and chill is about recognizing women who are DTF, being able to attract them, and moving this swiftly to sex over texts.
Let's see what it looks like in practice.
2 - Move Onto Getting Her Over
Here's how I followed up with Susie:
You know it, Instagram is the best way to follow up after Tinder.
Because girls can see so much more of your life and get to know you.
Careful though: make sure your Instagram actually plays in your favor.
Make sure your feed looks at least above average
Make sure you post stories that are fun and engaging
Soon I'll come up with a definitive Instagram guide and link it here.
But in the meantime, just make sure you're sharing about your life in a way that makes you look cool.
Use Instagram To Reassure Her
That's a huge part of how to invite a girl to Netflix and Chill:
A cool Instagram will get her more invested in you
A cool Instagram will show her you have some social status and other people like you
A cool Instagram will show her that you're not a crazy axe murderer
And as a whole, a good Instagram profile will reassure her.
To put it bluntly:
She has fewer chances to meet a creep if she goes for a guy who can prove he has a dope lifestyle.
And she doesn't want to meet a creep.
She just wants to have fun, and if all goes well, end up her head between the pillows.
If you wonder how to invite a girl to Netflix and Chill, don't forget this very important thing.
Girls are more easily scared than men when dating, so anything you can do to make her feel more secure will help.
This will make it so much easier for her to feel comfortable coming over to your place on the first date.
Gradually Increase Her Investment
So there I was, I started the conversation on IG and she replied.
Just a bit of fluff about her name for starters.
No game there, just enjoying and sharing a good vibe.
Because I found it fun, I asked.
Pro Tip: Girls dig a carefree, relaxed, and non-judgemental vibe when they want to hookup with a guy on Tinder. Don't be afraid to take the time to banter. |
Not everything has to be "a move".
It's actually better to be able to lighten up your conversations with banter.
This will also have for advantage to increase the sexual tension between you and her, and get her more invested.
Over that weekend I was super busy with Halloween parties so I ghosted her.
I wouldn't recommend this as a technique because it's very random.
She might assume I don't like her
She might just go for another guy
But in essence, it showed her I really wasn't attached to any kind of outcome with her.
And this behavior is super sexy to women.
Notice a very important thing: most of our conversation is made up of 2 things:
Throwing jokes
Figuring out our logistics
So you guys have no excuse anymore.
From this day on, you're not allowed to come up to me and tell me you don't know what to text girls.
Here are the only 2 things you need to talk about when you text girls who like you:
You have fun
You figure out how you can meet her
Moving on, there comes the moment when I have a fair idea of when she's available for us to meet.
So I take the risk and make my move.
Here's how to invite a girl to Netflix and Chill and make your move properly:
You don't hesitate
You be as precise as possible
You be as assertive as possible
Overall you should have a "fuck it, I'm doing it" attitude when you're making moves with a girl.
For example, you don't ask her "are you free sometime soon?"
Instead, you tell her "let's do this on Sunday at 3".
"But what if she says no and rejects me?"
You move on, it's as simple as that.
That's why you must cultivate this vibe of not really caring about the girls you date (at least at the beginning).
And never focus on the outcome.
Especially if you want to know how to invite a girl to Netflix and Chill.
Because when you make a clear move and propose a clear date, here's what will happen:
She can't and says no.
She can't and gives you a reason why, so you can then find a solution.
She ghosts you.
She says yes.
In my most recent article, I go in-depth on what to do when a girl ignores your moves.
(Go read it if you haven't, it's FOUNDATIONAL when it comes to frame control over texts.)
Not caring about whether she says yes or no really helps when you learn how to invite a girl to Netflix and Chill.
Anyways, here she can meet me so we go deep into logistics.
Where she is, how she's gonna come to me, what time, etc.
Being very precise is the key.
Girls are fickle and generally very bad with logistics.
So make sure she doesn't get lost on her trip to your place.
Easy peasy, lemon squeezy.
She's now over and you almost know how to invite a girl to Netflix and Chill.
Let's now make sure that home date goes smoothly.
3 - Escalate To Sex Quickly
So guys who know how to invite a girl to Netflix and Chill also know that things usually go down pretty quickly.
Here's a recap of the situation so far:
She likes you
You like her
You guys are both in a place where having sex is possible
If you made it that far, you literally overcame the biggest difficulties when it comes to getting laid.
Now it's just about escalating to sex and not screwing it all up.
Chill Out & Enjoy Her Company
Now I'm not gonna lie to you:
When you learn how to invite a girl to Netflix and Chill you will see some situations where you guys literally jump onto each other as soon as she's inside.
But in my experience, that's not the majority of the cases when you meet a new girl for the first time.
Quickly Make Her Comfortable
In most cases you will need to make her at east first on a few points:
Emotionally: joke around with her, relax, have some funny banter
Physically: start by touching her in neutral areas like the forearms and upper back
Most of the time you will start by doing what she actually came for: watching a movie.
So do that, and escalate emotionally and physically at the same time.
Quickly Turn Up The Heat
Since she came with sex at the back of her mind, in most cases you will see that she will let you escalate physically way faster than a girl you'd meet outside.
There's no way you will be grabbing the neck of a girl you met in a bar within 2 minutes.
When a girl comes over for Netflix and Chill, it's something that happens way more often.
Some girls will need more time than others.
But generally, you guys will be naked on top of each other by the end of the movie.
Enjoy Your New FWB
You now know how to invite a girl to Netflix and Chill and make the most out of it.
This article showed you a clear example, explained step by step.
So don't hesitate to come back here if the women you meet get you confused.
Because once you understand how to invite a girl to Netflix and Chill, it's like getting a new superpower.
And it's a great way to add more girls to your rotation.
And you can even find serious long-term girlfriends like that, if she's open to it.
And One More Thing
Knowing how to invite a girl to Netflix and Chill is good and all but...
As I mentioned earlier, you will have a very hard time getting there if you don't know how to text girls.
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